When you love someone, you choose to be vulnerable in a way that is beyond description. Not since you were first placed in the hands of those who made you have you ever been more vulnerable.
So, when you make that life-changing choice of the one you will love, know that you lay your heart open to that one, always and forever. There is no going back. You give that person the most sacred part of yourself that only they have the power to nurture, or to hurt, or even to destroy.
When you choose to join your life with another, in essence, in total trust, you hand them a knife and a map of your heart. How he honors your most precious gift, how well you tested the depth of his sincerity and integrity, how well he respects how vulnerable you are, will bless or curse your life. Yes, always and forever.
If you value you, ask your soul a million times,”Is he Worthy of ME?” Then, listen to your sacred intuition for the answer. She will not fail you. She is how your soul speaks your truth to you. And, no matter how well he has proven, so far, to be the one you can trust with your truth and your tears, your most trustworthy voice is your own, always and forever.
Please, my sweet sister, before you choose for your life, and perhaps the lives of your children, or children to be, test him beyond a shadow of a doubt. Lead with your head, and keep your heart safe until you are absolutely sure that this is truly the one you can trust with your life into his hands.
With all your dreams and reality for the rest of your life at stake, know know KNOW the measure of this man before you hand him that knife, wrapped up in the map of your heart.
YOU are Worthy. Blessed be.
Chapter 20 “ANAM CARA ~ Whatever Souls are Made Of, Yours and Mine are the Same”
On Becoming NaughtABimbeaux
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